What is NLP? Let’s Make Our Dreams Come True
NLP-Neuro Linguistic Programming means mind language programming. Nlp is supportive for us to realise our goals and dreams in all areas of our lives. In fact, we would not be exaggerating if we say that it puts us on the flying carpet in fairy tales and carries us to the magical life. This is usually because our brain is activated by learning how to use its existing potential effectively. NLP is the cornerstone of personal development. NLP is also a process that everyone who wants to support themselves in personal development, overcome the problems in their lives, discover their current potential, self-realise and achieve their life vision should learn. Today we would like to write to you about the most basic process to start carrying NLP into your life.
Do you know what you want? After reading these lines, I want you to stop and think for a minute before you continue reading. I can hear you saying things. I want to be more successful, I want to be happier, I want my salary to be higher, I want my relationship with my wife to be better… and on and on… The list goes on and on. What is the measure or criterion, in fact, our mind wants to know this and at the same time cares a lot. What is the criterion of success according to the person who wants to be successful? For some it is more money, for some it is a title, for some it is working in a safe environment, for some it is having good colleagues, etc.
The criteria for success are different for everyone. Our brain needs to know these specific, measurable criteria so that it can support us. Let’s analyse another request. I want to have a better relationship with my partner. What are the criteria for a better relationship? Yes, a better relationship has different measurable criteria for each of us. Sometimes, it can be very different criteria, such as being able to chat with your partner for half an hour in the evening, sometimes a gift or a flower, sometimes hearing words of love, and sometimes being appreciated. Since these criteria depend on relationship dynamics, partners’ personality structures, rules, experiences, past experiences and too many variables to count, they will differ for everyone. Therefore, if we ask anyone about these requests, we will get different answers. Therefore, when we clarify our own wishes and set specific and measurable criteria, our wishes turn into goals. What distinguishes a goal from a wish is that the goal is measurable. I want to lose weight, which is a desire; I want to lose 5kg. As a student, I want to get a better grade; I want to get 95 out of 100. In fact, this is not something new for us. It is an attitude that we constantly use in our daily lives.
When we leave home, it is usually clear where we are going to go, for example, when we set off for work, our mind goes through all the options about the destination without us realising it and takes us there effortlessly in the shortest way. When we leave the house, we do not say that we want to go anywhere, it is clear where we are going. Thus, our mind is organised accordingly. It chooses the right clothes, make-up and image for the place we are going to. For example, suppose we are going to a dinner invitation. In that case, our mind makes a plan in seconds by ignoring the daily clothes before going to the front of our wardrobe and only reviewing the combinations suitable for that invitation. If we listen to our inner voice, we can easily hear this voice. If we don’t know where we want to go, our mind doesn’t guide us, it just waits silently for the chaos to settle down. Because there is no right or wrong for it. It is programmed to act in line with your wishes, choices and happiness.
NLP is a tool that allows us to recognise ourselves, to make friends with our inner voice, to direct our consciousness and subconsciousness correctly and to use them effectively. Clarifying what we want and taking action are the cornerstones of NLP. Since NLP is a global system, the whole world continues to follow the success stories of people who use NLP. Considering that everyone’s brain mind has the same structure, you can easily reach your wishes and goals by using the same strategies. I wish life will bring you surprises full of beauty.
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